wow you got peacemaker in your screen name .that really has to suck. hard to help when i dont know what the fight was about but i'm guessing that you have not spent enough time over the past 8 years paying attention to her needs that now she over time has fulfilled them herself some way.when you have an arguement or confrontation it automatically puts both ppl on guard.things are said that are hurtfull and are hard to take back.as in any relationship it takes 2 ppl to make it work.we are blined by our every day grind and it soesnt take long for days to turn into years as we are creatures of habit.when someone moves on in life with out the other realizing it comes as a blow. i say wake up its pretty ovibous that you have cause you want to spend more time with her but it probaly crowds her it happening all of a sudden for 8 years she has done her own thing in the relationship its gonna be hard to expect her to just change deroction all at once. it's the little things that you can do that will take her unexpectivly.by all means give her some space and u have to change your ways a little at a time to let her be ablle to involve you more in her life.we all have routines and u blew hers out of the water.apoligize for pushing so hard and pay more attention to her life. we all have to start by looking in the mirror and seeing ourselves who we are and who we want to be.

Feel for you man. My lady walked 10 years ago. I know a close friend who is thinking of dumping the hubby. Says too much drinking and afraid to go anywhere in public with her old man because he tells people off who are just walking by.

I am sure the police can assist in retrieving the wallet. Can you imagine a man even thinking of taking a wife's purse on the way out the door? I can understand the car being taken, nobody wants to walk, nowadays. I will have to add the wallet taking to the list of differences between a man and a woman.

Hopefully the bicycle is in the garage and just needs some air put in the tires, or finally get around to getting the broken down car fixed. Hope you remember how to do laundry.

I have been telling the young wives out there, the men are buying the Harley's these days instead of the house. When women leave they want the house. So today's man is smarter. He rents the house and buys the Harley. Now, if the woman tries to leave, there is no house for the woman to take away. And the woman don't want no damn Harley.   

gl man